Problem with my long distance relationship

[hoesiong]

Hello bros,

My girlfriend is an Aussie and we met when she was in Sg doing her overseas work stint. So, we were together for about a year before she went back earlier this Feb. Like most couples in a LDR, we stay in touch through whatsapp messages and video calls on a quite a regular basis. In our recent chats, she claimed that I don't show her enough concern, which I disagree, and we started having arguments as a result. Initially, I thought it was due to her stress at work and thought nothing of it as some bickering is common with couples.
However, during the arguments, she would sometimes show her diva attitude to the extent of insulting me and threatening break-up. I felt belittled and despite all the rages I felt, I was always the first to apologize to calm the situation and stop her offense. After my apology, she would then also apologize for the harsh words and tells me that she don't mean them.
This has happened for 3-4 times already so I really don't know what really going through her mind.

My heart tells me that I still love her and should be forgiving but my brain tells me my limit is nearing and my dignity as a man is hurting.

Should I continue or give up on this LDR? What will you do in my shoes?Advice needed...
Bros, please share your stories and exp on LDR too.

[hoesiong]

I'm really lost now. Any advice would really help..
Thanks.

[FatSpider]

u are a useless man
u want be with her either u get that slut to come here or u be a dog and go there

else just fuk and forget

while u are moping and posting your sob story shes probably still snuggling in someone else bed with 2 black nigga cocks beside her and cum oozing out the cheebye

[smoofdeek]

I've been there so I feel you bro. The both of you gotta have a serious talk if you are gonna continue with the LDR. It's not easy when the both of you do not have a definite timeline of how long this LDR will continue. Most LDR works because they fly out and visit each other every 2 or 3 months or even every 6 months, and also they have plans for example, in 2 or 3 years time, they gonna move to the same city or one of the partners is gonna move to the other's city.

If there is no clear direction or timeline of where this LDR is going, it's doomed to fail. I would only encourage LDR if you know marriage is somewhere down the line and making plans for it, otherwise, it's better to end it no matter how much you love each other.

I think the distance and not knowing when she's gonna see you again is taking a toll on her, it's just as frustrating for her as it is for you. Talk to her, see where her mind is at right now, if you both decide to stick this through, make plans to meet once every few months, if both of you are not ready to settle down with each other, then take a break, go date other people, but you can always stay i touch and remain friends if you want. Nobody knows what the future brings, but there has to be a purpose in a relationship.

[FishPartner]

i had one long distant relationship sometimes back. I do not advise anyone to have one. It is not worth the effort.

[sky_liner2]

Difficult to maintain long distance luv-ship, unless married for quite sometime but posted to work overseas but coming home 2 to 3 times in a year is still ok. Bro, my advice is that you let go and find a local darling.

[Spector69]

My Bhutanese friend is cute and she has 3 sisters. When she came to look for a job we had a wonderful time. We still chat up on google TALK. Am planning a trip there after the raining season.

[HunnyCame888]

Stumbled upon a massage place years ago and the sole proprietor, Lek told me she is from Sa Kaeo Province. Two year ago she visited Malaysia and ask if we can meet up there. I went over to..connect with her and.. and was it a unforgettable trip.

We still keep in contact and I hope to visit her in BKK.

[FishingPartner]

My love from PNG is asking me for commitment. Never mix business with pleasure.

[Babarella]

Hello Everybody! I like Angmoh and they have cute butts. I am using apps to try to snag my beau. Wish me luck and hope i can learn German fast fast.

[Femalepartner]

I am from Thailand and my Singapore on/off bf called Ray have a long distant relationship. I am tired of it. Every time I talked about marriage he will disappear. I am planning to come over to fark him and it does not work, I am going back my married bf. Ray if you are reading this, I am cumming!

[VielSpass]

Originally Posted by Babarella

Hello Everybody! I like Angmoh and they have cute butts. I am using apps to try to snag my beau. Wish me luck and hope i can learn German fast fast.

Warum deutsch?

[FetPartner]

Originally Posted by HunnyCame888

Stumbled upon a massage place years ago and the sole proprietor, Lek told me she is from Sa Kaeo Province. Two year ago she visited Malaysia and ask if we can meet up there. I went over to..connect with her and.. and was it a unforgettable trip.

We still keep in contact and I hope to visit her in BKK.

You reminded me of my relationship with Ann, who went by a yahoo handle Sad Rainbow or something like that. We spent about 7 years on yahoo messenger. One day the over worked worker in me was given a 3 days break and YM-ed Ann, booked a ticket to BKK and got an intro to the food and place.

Found out Ann is a virgin and don't blame me, i popped her cherry.

[Chengster]

I think the days are numbered. TS think u better expect the worst

[Babarella]

Originally Posted by VielSpass

Warum deutsch?

Guten Abend

Warum Nicht?