Unable to maintain erection when about to penetrate

[Jackcarver]

Hi all, recently got a new gf and we started to fool around in bed, foreplay is good but somehow when about to penetrate, i feel like i lose my erection and can't get hard enough to go in. After that no matter what i won't be able to get hard, even though we do heavy petting and she hj or bj me. Quite embarrassing but lucky she is understanding.

Just the day before sex with new gf i did have sex with my previous fwb and it was ok.

After failed with new gf i went to try a session with my previous previous gf and started to face the same issue, unable to erect when getting into position for sex. Lucky she a bit less tight and she managed to squeeze me in, once inside i have enough stimulation to maintain hardness and able to continue.

I tried masturbating at home also facing this problem, initially can get hard but after a while once i stop simulation will straight away start to soften.

No health issues, don't really eat junk food, active lifestyle with exercise. Not stress with work. Below 30 also. Only thing is getting about 7+ hours of sleep these days and waking up before my alarm because sun too bright, i prefer at least 8 hours but ok la still good enough right? Noticed i don't get morning wood as well these days.

Was thinking see a doctor but wonder if all they will do is give me the blue pill to take before sex? Any good doctor to recommend? Was also considering to go to juagen or some ML therapy from the other forums here. Maybe performance anxiety but i never felt this before and i don't really feel like I'm anxious? Any bros faced this issue or have any advice? Thx in advance.

[sammyboyfor]

Sounds like it's all in the head. The more you worry about going soft the more likely it is to happen.

You need to focus your concentration on the act and stop thinking about your dick going flacid.

[sammyboyfor]

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[fallen11]

Stress check yourself first.
Are your stress level higher recently?
Stress kills everything.

[Jackcarver]

Thanks boss for the tips!

@fallen11, i dont think is stress, dont really feel stressed about anything currently

[Xgenre]

What is your height and weight? Better go for a proper check up. Check blood pressure, cholesterol and blood sugar level. With the diet these days, below 30 does not guarantee you are definitely healthy. Do you do 90 minutes of exercise per week?

[Jackcarver]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

What is your height and weight? Better go for a proper check up. Check blood pressure, cholesterol and blood sugar level. With the diet these days, below 30 does not guarantee you are definitely healthy. Do you do 90 minutes of exercise per week?

My body is toned type, i go to gym regularly, just that this recent phase 2 means cant go but i still workout at home. Mostly healthy food also, cook at home. I do annual checkup and everything is normal in my last year check. Maybe time to do my next checkup....

[BushTracker]

TS, how often do you watch and jerk off to porn? If it is too often, it will affect your erection in the absence of porn.

try stay of porn for 2 months and see if there is improvement.

[kennethmak]

I also kinda face tis type of prob....
Im the type who can cum once only and after that very hard to get erected again.
Carnt have sex everyday as wont have strong erection

So i give break. I need like one day rest after cum to enjoy sex with strong erection again.
Maybe weak dick i think.
You try give yourself break one or 2 days then try again.

My gf not that understanding so tough for me. Think blue pill etc might work but never tried yet....

[Jackcarver]

Originally Posted by BushTracker

TS, how often do you watch and jerk off to porn? If it is too often, it will affect your erection in the absence of porn.

try stay of porn for 2 months and see if there is improvement.

hardly these days. i only went back to it to try what happens if i masturbate, turns out i can't maintain hardness once i stop stimulation also

Originally Posted by kennethmak

I also kinda face tis type of prob....
Im the type who can cum once only and after that very hard to get erected again.
Carnt have sex everyday as wont have strong erection

So i give break. I need like one day rest after cum to enjoy sex with strong erection again.
Maybe weak dick i think.
You try give yourself break one or 2 days then try again.

My gf not that understanding so tough for me. Think blue pill etc might work but never tried yet....

now also not every day, i only meet my new gf once a week for sex

[Hotstuff82]

Originally Posted by Jackcarver

Hi all, recently got a new gf and we started to fool around in bed, foreplay is good but somehow when about to penetrate, i feel like i lose my erection and can't get hard enough to go in. After that no matter what i won't be able to get hard, even though we do heavy petting and she hj or bj me. Quite embarrassing but lucky she is understanding.

Just the day before sex with new gf i did have sex with my previous fwb and it was ok.

After failed with new gf i went to try a session with my previous previous gf and started to face the same issue, unable to erect when getting into position for sex. Lucky she a bit less tight and she managed to squeeze me in, once inside i have enough stimulation to maintain hardness and able to continue.

I tried masturbating at home also facing this problem, initially can get hard but after a while once i stop simulation will straight away start to soften.

No health issues, don't really eat junk food, active lifestyle with exercise. Not stress with work. Below 30 also. Only thing is getting about 7+ hours of sleep these days and waking up before my alarm because sun too bright, i prefer at least 8 hours but ok la still good enough right? Noticed i don't get morning wood as well these days.

Was thinking see a doctor but wonder if all they will do is give me the blue pill to take before sex? Any good doctor to recommend? Was also considering to go to juagen or some ML therapy from the other forums here. Maybe performance anxiety but i never felt this before and i don't really feel like I'm anxious? Any bros faced this issue or have any advice? Thx in advance.

sorry to dig this thread out, but its really all in the mind and have anxiety issues trying to do well with your new GF as for your FWB, you has no problems cause you are already confident with her in bed. instead of trying to perfom well in bed, why dont enjoy the whole foreplay, loosen up abit and try, you be surprised you can go on non-stop like duracell.

PS* juagen may work in the interim but its not a long term fix

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by kennethmak

My gf not that understanding so tough for me. Think blue pill etc might work but never tried yet....

Your gf may think you do not find her body attractive enough and that is why you don't have enough desire for her. Ego wounded, she start feeling unconfident of herself and unleash her unhappiness on you. I think you have to reassure her that there is nothing wrong with her and you are full of desire for her. It's just that your body needs more time to recharge itself. Tell her something like .. Sperm production take a different amount of time for different guys.

If you cannot maintain erection that often, start licking the vagina more often, giving random hugs with reasons and rhyme. Basically show her you cannot get your hands off her body even though the dick isn't ready for another round of sex.

If your body figure is like that MOH doctor Kenneth Mak, wah you better exercise and increase strength and stamina. Same name wor...

[flamethrower]

Might help if you just get a blue pill. Am okay otherwise but also struggled to do daily or a few times within one or two days.

Is not ED but sometimes just needed an extra push to perform. It doesnt make you reliant on it as long as you dont anyhow pop.

[Jackcarver]

I've been popping the blue pill before every session (50mg) and doing great, just have slight nose block side effect after about 2 hours. Once in a while will end up having sex without the pill (unexpected session so didn't take, or find FL i normally don't take). So far only one time couldn't get hard, is with FL but she got smoker breath and no gfe so really turn me off until i just give up, wasted $$ haha.

With regular fwb who I'm used to, i feel like can perform without the pill, so maybe it's really psychological and need to get comfortable with the girl. Altho i feel the hardness not as strong without, but at least can penetrate and bonk until finish

Probably i will try to cut down the dosage to 25mg and see. Since with regular fwb it's ok, maybe i don't really need the pill

[kamagra]

Originally Posted by Jackcarver

I've been popping the blue pill before every session (50mg) and doing great, just have slight nose block side effect after about 2 hours. Once in a while will end up having sex without the pill (unexpected session so didn't take, or find FL i normally don't take). So far only one time couldn't get hard, is with FL but she got smoker breath and no gfe so really turn me off until i just give up, wasted $$ haha.

With regular fwb who I'm used to, i feel like can perform without the pill, so maybe it's really psychological and need to get comfortable with the girl. Altho i feel the hardness not as strong without, but at least can penetrate and bonk until finish

Probably i will try to cut down the dosage to 25mg and see. Since with regular fwb it's ok, maybe i don't really need the pill

Seems like it is due to psychological pressure. Dunn rely too much on the blue pill. Once hooked, you will never come back.