Sex Life after Marriage

[cornelius]

Originally Posted by Fade

Wish there is a Like button here where I can just click to express my gratitude to all fellow Bros and Sis for all the kinds words offered. I even get scolding in my PM calling me a loser and shaming me for not knowing what to do with my life!
I remained grateful.

As said, I recover this post to reflect on myself and to raise the awareness of passive aggressive behaviour. I hope ppl here can learn from my experience. I am not whining and asking for help on what to do and what not as compared to 9 years ago when this thread was first started.

For now, I thanked all again for your support and few years down the road, I hope I can do another posting to update all on my situation.

Blessings to all.

I also learning. Jia you

[cornelius]

Originally Posted by Fade

Precisely! Married already and wife beside him - still got the guts to stare at gals openly? What does he take the wife for? Maid ah? Should show the wife some respect. I will be totally embarrassed with a hubby who behaves like a teeko pek in public. If i am the gal being stared at, i will wonder what kind of man the woman married and will feel ultra sorry for her.

I think if looking at gals is at fault. Then must blame the nature. Guys are born to look at gals. This is nature.

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by Fade

Wish there is a Like button here where I can just click to express my gratitude to all fellow Bros and Sis for all the kinds words offered. I even get scolding in my PM calling me a loser and shaming me for not knowing what to do with my life!
I remained grateful.

Stay strong sis, you know what best for yourselves. Don't let what others say affect your train of thoughts..

[Harmonic]

Originally Posted by cornelius

I also learning. Jia you

Same here as well

[Humperdinck]

Originally Posted by Harmonic

Same here as well

Same here too
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[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Fade

Wish there is a Like button here where I can just click to express my gratitude to all fellow Bros and Sis for all the kinds words offered. I even get scolding in my PM calling me a loser and shaming me for not knowing what to do with my life!
I remained grateful.

As said, I recover this post to reflect on myself and to raise the awareness of passive aggressive behaviour. I hope ppl here can learn from my experience. I am not whining and asking for help on what to do and what not as compared to 9 years ago when this thread was first started.

For now, I thanked all again for your support and few years down the road, I hope I can do another posting to update all on my situation.

Blessings to all.

why would anyone do that? its the way life is.

We roll with the punches, we get knocked down 5 times we get up 6

Chin up sis. You are not alone, behind closed doors, there are worse things happening.

Jiayou....

[Shadow_warrior]

[Fade]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

Haizzz... why u reveal ur age with such song??? Don't you know 听歌可以听出年龄吗？

[Chendol]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

Stay strong sis, you know what best for yourselves. Don't let what others say affect your train of thoughts..

Very well said

[hhlover]

Sex life after marriage is = to sad life after marriage..
Be4.. girlfriend n boyfriend.. sex everyday oso can..
After marriage, without child maybe still 1wk at least 3times..
After having 1st child... Still lucky 1wk 1time or 2wk 3times..
2nd child.. sex life become sad life.. one whole month maybe 1time.. or 2-3 month 1 time..

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Fade

Haizzz... why u reveal ur age with such song??? Don't you know 听歌可以听出年龄吗？

haha I don't think it matters at all.

Nothing wrong with being older, just matter if life is lived meaningfully

I am sure with age always comes wisdom and experience one doesn't have otherwise.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by hhlover

Sex life after marriage is = to sad life after marriage..
Be4.. girlfriend n boyfriend.. sex everyday oso can..
After marriage, without child maybe still 1wk at least 3times..
After having 1st child... Still lucky 1wk 1time or 2wk 3times..
2nd child.. sex life become sad life.. one whole month maybe 1time.. or 2-3 month 1 time..

one time a month is a lot for some bros already

some don't even touch each other for years.

its all the same. Wife, GF, Fbs.... same lah.

Excitement stops, so does the sex, and the routine starts

Maybe that's why the external escapades always seem so much greener. But over time, that too shall fade

[OffPeak]

Originally Posted by Chendol

Very well said

Indeed well said

[Fade]

There you go guys.... do u all see the pattern now?
It's about making an effort to keep those sparks alive with ur partner! Even with a FB, the companionship could get stale. If you change a FB or a find a new Wife, history always repeats! So start making the change in yourself! Not ur FB or ur Wife! Sturborn like bulls one will tell me that the best solution is by having many FBs or go look for FLs with no strings attached etc..pls touch ur heart.. touch ur heart and tell yourself that you deserve only the best.
Being no angel myself falling into hell, please do not subject yourself to be used or use others in exchange for your desired lust.

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

one time a month is a lot for some bros already

some don't even touch each other for years.

its all the same. Wife, GF, Fbs.... same lah.

Excitement stops, so does the sex, and the routine starts

Maybe that's why the external escapades always seem so much greener. But over time, that too shall fade

[hil169]

It takes two hands to clap. It takes both to make the change. No use one keep putting in effort and the other not reciprocating at all. You know it best by looking at your own situation.